Story like the others

This is not my story but yours. It is the one known by each young couple. There are some people who are perfectly connected, but most part of the time it is not the case. We do not have the partner of our dream neither the job wish for. The most difficult in the life is to deal with this fact.*

A couple's life and wedding are the most challenging human adventure ( it is easier to go to the moon than succeed our loving life). One of the reasons is because you will come to the end of Yours Illusions (face up the reality).

My name is not relevant neither the location of the protagonists, only the feelings are important. When you decide to move in together, you begin a war against a lovely opponent. Nobody is ready to fight someone they love! We do not want to believe all the rumours. You think it is bullshit, you think you are stronger than all these clichés (worst of the all you think your love is stronger). We see comedy about loving life as isolated cases. Why don't your parents smile, as they should, when they watch this type of entertainments? Why sometimes do they share some guilty and accusing regards against themselves?

Why in these series, is it always the same kind of clichés. Maybe because is not a cliché...Maybe because is closer to the truth than you are able to imagine. Be in relationship is something,begin a couple's live is another more difficult to deal with.

It is very challenging. Do not think it is because you do not find the one. He Hides himself behind this popular excuse, it is ridiculous! Look at yourself first before to look around.

Will you be the stolen or the thief? Quickly we feel as if someone is stealing our soul, our wishes and most important your dreams. Some people will say it is becoming an adult. I would like to stay a child, not for just dreaming but continue to believe on them.

BlackTruth

*Refereed to the Errances Affectives tome 2, book which i was pleased to read before his out.

Une histoire comme les autres

Cette histoire n'est pas mon histoire, mais la votre...celle de chaque jeune couple. Il existe des personnes qui s'emboitent merveilleusement mais la plus part du temps ce n'est pas le cas. Nous n'avons pas la femme ni travail de nos rêves. Le plus dur dans la vie est de l'accepter*. La vie de couple et le mariage sont les plus grands challenges qui attendent un homme et une femme.
La vie de couple est le début de grandes desillusions. Mon nom importe peu, de même que les lieux, seuls les ressentiments qui suivent notre aventure le sont.
Lorsque vous vous engagez à vivre ensemble, vous entrez dans une guerre des plus atroces, car vous aimez votre opposant. Je pense que la première fois, nous ne sommes jamais prêts. On rêve et on se dit que tous ce que l'on a entendu n'est que rumeur. On pense que toutes ces séries (comiques) sur la vie de couple ne sont que des cas isolés. On se croit naïvement plus fort que tous ces clichés ( idiots, on va même jusqu'à proclamer que notre amour est plus fort que tous)!
Mais pourquoi lorsque nos parents regardent ce type de séries, ne rigolent-ils pas de la même facon que vous? Pourquois se lancent-ils des regards accusateurs ou coupables?
Pourquoi toujours les mêmes clichés?

On se sent peu à peu déposséder de son âme, de ses envies mais surtout de ses rêves. Certains diront que c'est devenir un adulte. J'aurais aimé rester un enfant. Un enfant soucieux d'accéder à ses rêves, enfant qui les croit encore realisables.

BlackTruth

*Tiré des Errances Affectives Tome2 que j'ai eu le plaisir de lire avant sa sortie.